Resume
When I first came into the kink lifestyle a little over 30 years ago, I was fortunate to find a great many reputable & knowledgeable people that were willing to share their time and skills with others all for the benefit of the kink community. Years later, I was honored to be asked to teach others at everything from small private events, lifestyle groups, and even national conventions. I did the teaching circuit for many years and although it gave me great pleasure to help educate people on lots of deliciously kinky topics, I now consider myself retired from the kink teaching circuit. Below is a list of some of the groups and events I have had the good fortune to present at – some of them many times and the list brings back fond memories for me.
“Been there, taught that!”
Albany Power Exchange & Fall Frolic & Summer Bash kink events
Black Rose – Washington DC
Boston Dungeon Society
Bound in Boston – One of my fave events that is sadly no longer
COPE aka Central Ohio Perversion Excursion
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire – Washington DC
Darkstone NH
Deep Mind Dark Wood – Somewhere in the wilds of MA
Domsubfriends – NYC
Floating World
Folsom Fringe
Kinky Kollege in Chicago
Leather Retreat – Darlington MD
LILNR – Long Island Leather N Roses NY
NEEHU – New England Erotic Hypnosis unconference
NELA – New England Leather Alliance – Winter Flea Market – March 7-9, 2014
Pagan Family Picnic
Paradise Unbound – Seattle WA
Passional in Philly
Sensational Play Party Group
Shibaricon 5 years in a row Chicago IL
Sinsations in Leather Chicago IL
The Society of Hartford CT
Southeast Leather Fest – 15Atlanta, GA
TES The Eulenspiegal Society NYC & Bondage SIG NYC
Thunder in the Mountains – Denver CO
Utica Kink Society
Vassar College – 5 years in a row
WMPE (western Mass Power Exchange) Hartford CT
Fan Mail
“I get so many wonderful letters complimenting me on my website! I am always thrilled to read them and somehow it makes all the hard work and late hours I put into doing the site myself all worthwhile. I just wanted to share a few of them with you” – SxySadist
Mistress ~ I’ve spent a very pleasant few hours exploring your website. It is excellent! As a novice in BDSM, I have been searching the web for info and I have visited countless domme websites. Yours is the best by far. The information you give, your caring attitude and the sense of fun and wonder you project about BDSM are a godsend to the many like me. It leads me to realize that not all pro-Dommes hate men or wish only to whip them senseless. I just hope I can find a Mistress locally who lives up to the high standard you set!
Hello, I like the insights the diary brings, I hope you keep it for a while. Enjoyed your new opening page photo and hope to see the real thing again soon, and I’ll be studying the diary for tips to make you happy. ~ Gary
Subj: PRAISE TO THE MOST ADDICTIVE SITE ON THE NET!!!!!!
From: Withheld
Hey MS Suzanne
just wanted to let you know I’ve been a huge fan of your site since you first put it up and it keeps getting better. You have to hands down be the coolest Domme to grace the net. Your site is probably one of the few sites where the writing is as attention-getting as the imagery. keep up the great work. i cant wait to see what you put up next (hopefully a gallery of your nails =) ).
submissively Chris
Dear Mistress:
I hope you won’t mind me being so forward to just write you out of the blue. I discovered your site this morning via Poetrician’s site, and I just had to write you.
Your photos and your words are incredibly sexy. What got to me was the short poem on your main page. It is very rare to encounter someone who understands that a soft touch can be as devastating (if not more so) than a hard smack. I have loved soft domination for a long time, and your writing convinces me that you could gently tease a man to tears.
But your poem (along with your brief description of your soft toys – the fur mitt, the feathers, etc) made my heart swell with longing and my body ache terribly. I may never get a chance to meet you in person but you certainly may have the gift of my frustration, sparked by your sexiness and your playful attitude. It’s a frustration that will likely always haunt my body, since your incredible words and sexy image are burned into my brain.
your fan, christopher
Hi Suzanne.
I’d like to tell you this. I think I’m a really lucky person to have found you online. You make me enjoy every minute of playing the part.. You are just wonderful as a Mistress…..and as a person. You are one in a million My Mistress Suzanne! 🙂 I truly loved your page, very informative, very open, very honest. And you came over as a warm, caring, sensitive and sensible lady. I got the impression that you chose to become a pro-Domme not because of the money, not because you had a raging need to express your power, not because you couldn’t find a job . . . but because you get pleasure in the pleasure you are able to “inflict” on others.
If you live up to the image you project, you would probably be one of the most skilled and loving mistresses there are out there.
Thank you for a model site, for both the seriousness and the pleasure with which you endow BD/SM, for your stress on caution and safety, for the tremendous amount of information you impart.
Hey, I’m going on about you almost as if by just viewing your site I had already become your worshipful devotee. I’d better not go back to your site too often. God knows where my thoughts might lead me to . . . But hey, that mightn’t be such a horrid fantasy, after all. I just wanted to say that you have a wonderful website….. I read through it all!
You put much personality and talent in it ……especially the making of the dungeon…….very nice!……..I am a very novice Domme…..with a boyfriend that is very submissive…… I just thought I would drop you a line to let you know how I thought about your web page… Have a good day!
Mistress Suzanne aka SxySadist;
my name is deena/david and i just wanted to compliment you on Your web page. Your web page combines the rare combination of Your beauty but it is also very informative. Thank You for allowing me to view it and also to gaze upon Your beauty.
submissively, deena/david
Visited your site and it was wonderfully done and tasteful. A great help to me, thank you.
Sherry