Web Site Awards & Kudos
I work very hard on this web site and spend countless late nights toiling over every detail to make it the best that I possibly can. Although I have had a minimum of web authoring lessons over the years I seem to do a pretty decent job. I am always thrilled by letters of praise from people that visit my site and along the way I have been recognized as having done well by being honored with the following awards. Thank you!
Upcoming Events – well maybe just one more …
I have been fortunate to have had the opportunity to teach for dozens of national conferences over the years, and although it gave me great pleasure to help educate people on lots of deliciously kinky topics, I am now considering myself semi retired from the teaching circuit.
However, one event that is still near and dear to my heart, and that I will still at least consider teaching for once a year is Bound in Boston. I cannot say enough wonderful things about the event, organizers, staff, volunteers and attendees. It feels like home to me. 🙂
My past teaching resume – Been there, Done that!”
NELA – – Winter Flea Market – March 7-9, 2014
Beyond Leather – April 4 – 7, 2013
Paradise Unbound – Aug 6th – 11th 2012 Seattle WA
Bound in Boston – Oct 5th – 6th Boston MA
Deep Mind Dark Wood – Nov 15th Somewhere in the wilds of MA
2009
Folsom Fringe 09 – My second year in a row at Folsom Fringe .. what a great event and the street fair is just amazing! Here are more details
COPE aka Central Ohio Perversion Excursion
I was also thrilled to be one of the teachers at Yin’s Rope Bondage Workshop for Professional Dominas!
This particular Rope Share Workshop was focused for women in the industry.
We will be concentrating on ties that are particularly useful to session play.
Participants must be over 18yr.
Date/time: February 28th, Saturday, 1pm
Location: Greenwich St.
Instructors: Suzanne SxySadist, Miss Troy Orleans , and Yin
I also taught a hands on clothes on bondage workshop for Vassar College for the 5th year in a row in early April.
Darkstone April 11th 2009 And these great folks at in NH invited me to teach my Breath Play workshop. They are a great group and my friend Dez throws a great party!
2008
Utica Kink Society – Feb 9 Adaptable Bondage
The Society Hartford CT – Feb 23 Single Tails
Sinsations in Leather
Feb 29th – Mar 2nd Chicago IL-
I taught two classes: Breath & Blood Flow Play which was the highest attended class at Kinky Kollege and Needles, the Basics & Beyond.
Darkstone – Mar 7 – 9 NH – I was invited to NH to teach several classes for an area lifestyle group including a Bondage class, Ecstatic Caning, Intention / Connection and my Breath Ritual class.
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire – Mar 21 – 23 Washington DC
Albany Power Exchange – Mar 29 Albany Area
Vassar College – April 3rd Bondage – I have been invited back to teach a hands on bondage class to the students of Vassar College. This will be my third time teaching there and it is always a very rewarding experience.
NELA – Apr 26 – 27 for Boston & CT
Utica Kink Society – May 10 Upstate NY
Shibaricon V – May 28 – Jun 2 Chicago IL
Southeast Leather Fest – June 13 – 15Atlanta, GA –
My dear friend Lady Catherine had invited me back for the second year in a row to present for this wonderful event and I really enjoyed getting another great dose of “southern hospitality”! Stop by and check out their site including the podcasts!
Leather Retreat – June 25 – 30 Darlington MD –
Kink camp is always an amazing experience!
Thunder in the Mountains –Jul 25- 28 Denver CO
Floating World – Aug 15 – 17
Lesbian Sex Mafia – Sep 19 NYC
Black Rose – Oct 31 – Nov 3 Washington DC
2007
Jan 24th 2007 for TES Bondage SIG NYC
Feb. 10th 2007 – The Society of Hartford
April 5th 2007 for The Society Hartford CT
May 24 – 28th 2007 4 classes for Shibaricon in Chicago
June 8 – 10 2007 2 classes for South East Leather Fest in Atlanta!
June 20 – 25th in MD @ 4 classes for Leather Retreat
July 13th 2007 in NYC for Domsubfriends
Aug 24 – 26th 2007 3 classes for The Floating World
Sep 12 – 17 Canes & Single Tails for Dark Odyssey
Nov 2 – 4 2 classes for Kinky Kollege in Chicago
Nov 10 – 11 An ecstatic breath workshop for Atlanta GA for Whippersnappers
Dec 2 – 4 Binding the Jewels for Black Rose in DC
Dec 6th BDSM 101 for Vassar College
2006
Nov 15 2006 BDSM 101 for Vassar College
Oct 22 Torture Ties & Breath Play for Passional in Philly
May 28 2006 Intention, Connection & Breath and several other classes for Shibaricon Chicago
May 26 2006 Bondage & Shibari 101 and Rope CBT for Shibaricon Chicago
May 12 2006 Suspension Demo for DSF at Paddles NYC
May 13 2006 Rope Bondage Workshop for DSF at Paddles NYC
Apr 18 2006 Bondage & Shibari 101 for LILNR
2005
Oct 14 – 16 2005 3 bondage classes for Apex Fall Frolic
May 28 2005 Intention, Connection & Breath for Shibaricon Chicago IL|
May 27 2005 Rope Bondage / Shibari 101 & Torture Ties – Bondage for S&Mers for Shibaricon Chicago IL
May 6th 2005 Breath & Blood Flow Play: DomsubFriends at Paddles NYC
Apr 9th 2005 Breath & Blood Flow Play / The Society Hartford CT
March 4th 2005 Hands-On Needle Play Workshop: The Basics & Beyond /Quality SM
Jan 18 2005 Hands-On Needle Play Workshop: The Basics & Beyond / TES NYC
2004
Dec 11 2004 Intention, Connection & Breath / The Society Hartford CT
Dec 10 2004 Rope Suspension Demo for WMPE (western Mass Power Exchange) Hartford CT
September 10 2004 Intention, Connection & Breath / Boston Dungeon Society
August 21 2004 BDSM on a Budget: Shopping For & Making Inexpensive Toys For the Pagan Family Picnic
July 18 2004 Intention, Connection & Breath / APeX Summer Bash
June 22 2004 Suspension Demo / Class for LILNR
May 7th 2004 Needle Play: The Basics & Beyond for DSF For DomSubFriends at Paddles NYC
March 13th 2004 Bondage 101 For Sensational Play Party Group
Fan Mail
I get so many wonderful letters complimenting me on my website. I am always thrilled to read them and somehow it makes all the hard work and late hours I put into doing the site myself all worthwhile. I just wanted to share a few of them with you… SxySadist
Mistress ~ I’ve spent a very pleasant few hours exploring your website. It is excellent! As a novice in BDSM, I have been searching the web for info and I have visited countless domme websites. Yours is the best by far. The information you give, your caring attitude and the sense of fun and wonder you project about BDSM are a godsend to the many like me. It leads me to realize that not all pro-Dommes hate men or wish only to whip them senseless. I just hope I can find a Mistress locally who lives up to the high standard you set!
Hello, I like the insights the diary brings, I hope you keep it for a while. Enjoyed your new opening page photo and hope to see the real thing again soon, and I’ll be studying the diary for tips to make you happy. ~ Gary
Subj: PRAISE TO THE MOST ADDICTIVE SITE ON THE NET!!!!!!
Date: 2/25/00 6:19:37 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Withheld
Hey MS Suzanne
just wanted to let you know I’ve been a huge fan of your site since you first put it up and it keeps getting better. You have to hands down be the coolest Domme to grace the net. Your site is probably one of the few sites where the writing is as attention-getting as the imagery. keep up the great work. i cant wait to see what you put up next (hopefully a gallery of your nails =) ).
submissively Chris
Dear Mistress:
I hope you won’t mind me being so forward to just write you out of the blue. I discovered your site this morning via Poetrician’s site, and I just had to write you.
Your photos and your words are incredibly sexy. What got to me was the short poem on your main page. It is very rare to encounter someone who understands that a soft touch can be as devastating (if not more so) than a hard smack. I have loved soft domination for a long time, and your writing convinces me that you could gently tease a man to tears.
But your poem (along with your brief description of your soft toys – the fur mitt, the feathers, etc) made my heart swell with longing and my body ache terribly. I may never get a chance to meet you in person but you certainly may have the gift of my frustration, sparked by your sexiness and your playful attitude. It’s a frustration that will likely always haunt my body, since your incredible words and sexy image are burned into my brain.
your fan, christopher
Hi Suzanne.
I’d like to tell you this. I think I’m a really lucky person to have found you online. You make me enjoy every minute of playing the part.. You are just wonderful as a Mistress…..and as a person. You are one in a million My Mistress Suzanne! 🙂 I truly loved your page, very informative, very open, very honest. And you came over as a warm, caring, sensitive and sensible lady. I got the impression that you chose to become a pro-Domme not because of the money, not because you had a raging need to express your power, not because you couldn’t find a job . . . but because you get pleasure in the pleasure you are able to “inflict” on others.
If you live up to the image you project, you would probably be one of the most skilled and loving mistresses there are out there.
Thank you for a model site, for both the seriousness and the pleasure with which you endow BD/SM, for your stress on caution and safety, for the tremendous amount of information you impart.
Hey, I’m going on about you almost as if by just viewing your site I had already become your worshipful devotee. I’d better not go back to your site too often. God knows where my thoughts might lead me to . . . But hey, that mightn’t be such a horrid fantasy, after all. I just wanted to say that you have a wonderful website….. I read through it all!
You put much personality and talent in it ……especially the making of the dungeon…….very nice!……..I am a very novice Domme…..with a boyfriend that is very submissive…… I just thought I would drop you a line to let you know how I thought about your web page… Have a good day! Mistress Suzanne aka SxySadist;
my name is deena/david and i just wanted to compliment you on Your web page. Your web page combines the rare combination of Your beauty but it is also very informative. Thank You for allowing me to view it and also to gaze upon Your beauty.
submissively, deena/david
Visited your site and it was wonderfully done and tasteful. A great help to me, thank you.
Sherry