Educational Materials

I’ve had the honor of being invited to teach at BDSM events all over the country.  Whether I am working one on one with individuals or standing before a group, I consider my work to be educational in nature. Not only is it educational for the person or people I am working with, but it is always educational for me as well. The more people I meet and the more I learn about what others desire and want to explore, the more I am faced with mirrors and opportunities to expand my own horizons and self awareness.

I am experienced with many forms of BDSM and erotic sexual play and love to share knowledge with private individuals and other community members as a group, couple or individually.

Below you will find the handouts I’ve used. Click on the class title to download the handouts. Enjoy!

List of Classes & Descriptions:

Ecstatic Caning Class & Workshop

Few implements in the S&M world strike as much fear into the hearts of some people as the cane. The mere mention of the word alone can make many cringe in fear and start muttering about safe words & hard limits. However, there are many of us that understand that a cane in the hand of an experienced and talented Master or Mistress, has the capability of delivering an exquisite range of sensation and producing some of the most amazing endorphin fueled journeys imaginable.

In this class Suzanne SxySadist talks about the difference between rods and canes, cane selection, care and cleaning, where to cane, positions for caning, techniques for different effects and sensations and most near to her heart, the use of conscious breathing techniques to help the bottom to fly ecstatically and beg you for more.


Binding the Jewels – Cock & Ball Bondage

The male genitalia lends itself beautifully to many types of bondage and it is a wonderful way to remind him that YOU are totally in charge. In this class we also explore some basic safety info.


Intention, Connection & Breath

Have you ever wanted to add a more “magical” element to your play?  Or perhaps you have a yearning to build on the trust and intimacy already present between you and partner and transform it into something even more special. Most of us have a desire to share great levels of love, intimacy and connection with our chosen partners but think that that kind of connection and magic in a scene either just happens or takes a long time to build.  This does not have to be the case. I believe that anyone can transform their play and other intimate relationships by understanding each other’s intention and desires and by focusing on staying connected to each other during the scene.

This class focuses on understanding what drives us internally to engage in “what it is that we do” as well as exploring and expanding your use of specific intention to guide a scene and create a deeper and more meaningful shared experience for you and your partner. We also explore what it means to be energetically connected to our play partners and others through the practice of some verbal as well as non verbal communication skills. We use several tools and experiential exercises that will help you to strengthen intimacy, and create a stronger sense of purpose in your scenes. It is my belief that incorporating some of these practices into your play is one way to take your experience beyond the physical into the realm of the energetically ecstatic and spiritual.


Ecstatic Breath Ritual & Workshop

Breath is primal. It is the first thing we did upon entering this world and it will be one of the only constants we will know until we draw our last breath upon leaving it. The use of breath to attain altered states of consciousness has been practiced for centuries. It can also be used to manage pain, shift the body’s physical and emotional state and connect you energetically to other human beings.

In this workshop we explore completely safe conscious breathing techniques that can be used with in the context of BDSM scenes and other forms of love making. Some of these techniques are designed to help us connect more deeply to our own core, while also allowing for a deep connection with others and enjoying amazing shared experiences including “Breath Orgasms”.

Please note that this class is about bringing our consciousness to breath and voluntarily altering your own breathing patterns to achieve ecstatic effects. It has nothing to do with “Breath Play” which is an entirely different topic.

More classes to come!